Mar. 30 - Canadian
, a security agent in Iraq, was killed in action on Sunday, March 28. Mr. Bradsell, a former British Royal Marine, died in the line of duty in northern Iraq:
Mr. Bradsell was employed by Olive Security, a British security company.
Mr. Bradsell came from Vancouver, and leaves behind a wife and 3 children.
Our deepest respects and condolences to his family.
It's tempting to compare Mr. Bradsell with other "human shields" except for one fact: unlike those who talked much and did nothing, Mr. Bradsell and his partner, Christopher McDonald, were truly human shields, who deliberately put themselves between the assasins and the convoy they were escorting. My oldest remarked "They knew they could die."
That is the definition of hero.
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Andy was one of my best friends and was an amazing man, the guy you always wanted around, THE alpha male in a crew of alpha males. I'll tell you something, he didn't just die a hero, he lived his life as one.
Posted by: A friend at March 31, 2004 11:05 PM (r9WO5)
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I am very sorry for your loss. He seemed a good man and, although technically a civilian, was clearly a warrior strong and true.
Posted by: Debbye at March 31, 2004 11:55 PM (u0hyb)
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Andy Bradsell was my nephew. I would like to hear from the gentleman that wrote the March 31 article and called themself friend. He knows that Andy was everyones friend, as do I. I have read many articles that say the security contractors are out their for money and are not soldiers. Wait for my next comment and I will explain why this is not true.
Andy's Auntie June
Posted by: june bradsell at April 03, 2004 11:04 PM (4uLsc)
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Sorry that this is so long but Andy seemed to live 10 lifetimes in his 34 years.
I am Andy Bradsell's Auntie June, he is my brother John's son. I just got back from the Memorial Service in Victoria and was told that you will publish an article on Andy.
Since the news of his death in Mosul, Iraq on Sunday our lives will be forever changed. A hole left in our hearts and our family.
They came into the marriage each with a child, Tasha had Tycho, a boy now 9. Andy had Shayden, Tasha and Andy recently had a new baby boy, John Hunter now eight months old and the image of his father with his sparkling blue eyes and infectious smile.
The most touching part of the service was when the children spoke, they fought back tears. For ones so young they were courageous, speaking their own words from their hearts. Tycho saying that he asked Andy to be his dad even before Andy had asked Tasha to marry him. Speaking of his idol and the things that they did together, especially fishing and how he would never forget him. Shayden so small, had to be lifted by her grandfather to the podium. She said "I never got to say goodbye but now I have my chance"; "daddy made my laugh even when I felt like crying", it was heart wrenching.
His parents John and Lynda tried to speak but could only thank people for their love and support. His sisters Samantha and Kelly adored their big brother, their speeches filled with laughter and tears. Promising him that they would live up to his motto Carpe Diem..Cease the Day.
Our family friend Bob Cramer (Uncle Bob), also from Sherwood Park and the owner of Westana Financial Corporation spoke of the impact Andy made on the lives of everyone he met. Andy greeted strangers with "Hello Friend", he was everyone's friend.
Andy had three very special friends, Garry Hutchinson, his uncle, Mike Dick and Dennis Nolting, they called themselves "The Baraka Boys"…like all for one and one for all. They fished and hunted together every chance they got and were inseparable in spirit. They recently made a pact that if anything every happened to them their ashes would be scattered in their favourite hunting and fishing area...who knew that would be so soon! An e mail from Andy to Mike from Iraq was read out at the service, it was Andy's memoirs of the wilderness experience, it was breathtaking..we never knew that he could write like that.
The mood of the service was A Celebration of Memories, you could feel Andy's "larger than life" energy in the room. He would have been proud of the dignified and courageous way that his family handled themselves during this tragic time.
Andy wanted to make a positive difference in this world, and he did. He was born in England but moved to Canada with his parents when he was very young.
On a visit to his grandparents in England he surprised us all by joining the British Royal Marines, we were so proud. On leaving the Marines and moving back to Sherwood Park he opened a Body Guard School. A letter with memories of a young boy that is now a man was read out at the service. He spoke of the difference that Andy had made in his young life.
"He turned my life around, he taught me to have self esteem and confidence". Andy touched the lives of everyone he met, he was a mentor to many young people.
Andy did not like what was going on in this world, the violence, the hate. He wanted to do his part to make the world a better place, for us all and for his kids. He went to Iraq to protect Engineers from General Electric who are trying, amidst terrible danger to restore electricity to the country and it's people. The convoy of cars was ambushed by masked gunmen when entering the power plant. Andy and another ex British Royal Marine put themselves in the line of fire driving in front of the first vehicle enabling it to enter the safety of the compound and saving four lives. He died a hero saving others, we would not have expected any other from him...He was always our Hero! We are trying to obtain information on the ex British Royal Marine that was also killed in the vehicle, we would like to contact his family, he is a hero too.
The outpouring of love and sadness from everyone that knew Andy and our family is overwhelming. We thank and love you all.
Andy is still not home but he is in the country of his birth right now England. He and his family were to meet there in May when he was finished his job in Iraq. His wife Tasha is flying there on Sunday to bring him home. He spoke of Tasha as his soulmate, you can still see his soul and his spirit in her eyes.
Andy will be back in Canada on Wednesday, back in the country that he loved and embraced. We will hold a private family ceremony in Victoria on Thursday, this time he will be with us.
He will always be with us.
We will return to Edmonton to fulfil his wishes for his ashes to be returned to the wilderness that he so loved. At one with nature once again.
On a last note to him and to all.
"Have faith in yourselves and in life for there is now a magnificent new angel standing by
Posted by: june bradsell at April 03, 2004 11:16 PM (4uLsc)
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Canuck security man died saving others
By CP
VICTORIA -- A Canadian security expert in Iraq was due home in a month when he was killed in an ambush, his stricken widow said yesterday. Andy Bradsell, 33, a former British Royal Marine living in Victoria with his wife and young family, died on Sunday when a convoy headed to a power station in northern Iraq was ambushed by masked gunmen. Bradsell was married to Tasha Larson, former news anchor on Victoria's New VI television station. The couple had three children, including an eight-month-old son.
"Andy was in the rear vehicle and they were escorting the client to the power plant," Larson said. "When they were close to the power plant three vehicles with armed men came along side."
Bradsell and his partner sped forward to put themselves between the gunmen and the client.
While they took the fire, the other vehicle sped ahead and managed to pull away safely, but Bradsell and his partner were killed.
The Victoria man was working for Olive Security, a British international security company.
He was wearing body armour and was armed with both an AK-47 rifle and a handgun.
Bradsell moved as a child to Canada from England and grew up in Alberta.
He returned to England as a young man and joined the Royal Marines.
After doing extensive dignitary protection work in Europe he moved to Miami, where he protected celebrities such as Madonna and Jean Claude Van Damme, as well as corporate officials.
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 03, 2004 11:35 PM (AR1eq)
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Iraq casualty was due home in a month
Last Updated Tue, 30 Mar 2004 7:26:58
VICTORIA, B.C. - A man from Victoria, B.C., who once worked as the bodyguard for celebrities like Madonna and Jean Claude Van Damme has been identified as the Canadian killed in an ambush in Iraq on Sunday.
INDEPTH: Iraq
Andy Bradsell (courtesy: The New VI)
Andy Bradsell, one of two ex-soldiers providing security for British engineers when they were attacked by masked gunmen, was due to return home in a month, his family said.
Bradsell was an expert on armed combat. He fought for the British Special Forces in the first Gulf War before going on to private security work.
Last year, on the day war broke out again in Iraq, Bradsell was interviewed by a Victoria television station, The New VI, where his wife Tasha Larson worked as a news anchor. He spoke of the danger he faced as a soldier.
"One of my concerns when I was over there was not so much coming under enemy fire by Iraqis, that wasn't my concern, my concern a lot of the time was receiving friendly fire."
Bradsell said he had no urge to fight the second war. "I wouldn't want to be there now and I don't envy anybody that is there because it's a whole new ball game."
But he did go back, to work for a London-Based company called Olive Security, which employed several hundred ex-soldiers and police officers in Iraq. Bradsell is believed to have been protecting British engineers when his vehicle was ambushed east of Mosul. His clients were not hurt.
The scene of the attack where Canadian Andy Bradsell died (AP photo)
Andy Bradsell is survived by his wife and their three children, aged from eight months to nine years old.
He had met Larson when he was hired to protect her at a public event at a time when the television personality was receiving threatening letters at work.
That was shortly after moving back to Canada from Miami, where he had been protecting celebrities including Madonna and Van Damme
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 04, 2004 03:30 AM (HXXHT)
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Victoria man identified as Iraq victim
canada.com
Monday, March 29, 2004
Andy Bradsell, with his wife Tasha Larson in a family photo.
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A Victoria man has been identified as the Canadian killed in Iraq on Sunday.
Andy Bradsell, a security guard, was protecting a client with a British colleague when they were ambushed by masked gunmen.
Bradsell's wife, former New VI anchor Tasha Larson, said he died heroically, placing his vehicle between the client's vehicle and the three vehicles of the insurgents firing on them.
Bradsell and Larson have three children, an eight-month-old boy, a six-year-old daughter and a nine-year-old son.
At the time of the ambush, Bradsell and the British man were traveling behind a vehicle that carried two other security guards and the client - an employee of General Electric working on building a power station in the northern Iraqi city of Mosul.
After the insurgents killed Bradsell and his British colleague, they celebrated by jumping on the roof of the burned-out vehicle.
The three men in the other vehicle managed to escape.
Bradsell and the British man are the latest victims in a rash of drive-by shootings targeting Westerners in Iraq. General Electric is working to rebuild Iraq's barely functioning Third-World electrical system, further damaged by economic sanctions and bombings in recent years.
The Daily Telegraph reported that both men worked for GE security contractor Olive Security, a London-based firm which employs former members of British special forces.
The killings bring the number of civilians killed in Iraq to 12 in the month of March. Four U.S. missionaries were shot dead in Mosul earlier this month when they were ambushed in their vehicle.
Security in Iraq has become a huge concern for the foreign civilian population, who now almost always travel with a armed security guards.
Sunday's ambush marked the second time a Canadian was killed since war broke out in Iraq.
Two Canadian aid workers, Christopher Klein-Beekman, 31, a Courtenay man working for UNICEF, and a woman from Toronto, were killed in the bombing of the UN headquarters in Baghdad last August.
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 04, 2004 03:37 AM (HXXHT)
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My deepest respects to you and your family, Ms. Bradsell, and thank you for telling me more about Andy.
I have sent an email and hope you grant the permission I requested.
Men like your nephew exemplify courage, duty, and honour. Please believe that there are many of us who recognize and respect that, and make sure that in years to come, his children remember how deeply he was honoured by people who came to know him by his final devotion to duty but recognized his heroism as soon as we read of him.
Posted by: Debbye at April 04, 2004 10:22 AM (1v4Vp)
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I have this to say, in my grief I search for information. People close to me do not understand that . Because Andy was such a peace loving man..and he was, they think that I am stirring up trouble.
I am not looking for trouble, it found me. In my search for details some became much more graffic than some people can bear. I can bear it, we cannot hide from the truth.
I have now read articles about mercenaries and money grabbers. About pumped up, would be soldiers with tatoos. Well let me tell you, my nephew was 6'4" and covered in tatoos. My favourite of them was right across the bottom of his back. Carpe Diem...seize the day.
Some talk as though the only valuable people in Iraq are US Military. Hello! I don't see them going in to protect the power companies trying to restore power to this f...... country. Where was the show of force when these people died. Oh, I guess they were not in the military. Well excuse me, my nephew and the guy that he was with with who also got killed were ex British Royal Marines. I guess you have to stay in to get any respect aye.
Recently four US guys were pulled out of their vehicles and mutilated. That is absolutely disgusting. Our only saving grace is that Andy was one of the first killed there, before they got all excited about it!!! He was only! shot in the head.
I am not against Americans, god bless them but I think that they should start realizing that their news is like propaganda. Try and find anything on their channels about how this affects the rest of the world. Those four men died, their families do not have the solice of ours knowing that it was quick and painless.
June Bradsell
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 04, 2004 04:36 PM (Jw6+I)
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I must apologize for using the f word in my last e mail, I never even use that word. I was in the third stage of grieve...anger! The others being, denial, sadness, anger then acceptance. I am now more in the acceptance stage thankfully. I had been up all night when I wrote that, I was beside myself after I had been into some of the sites that come up when you type in Andy Bradsell. One in particular with Americans calling them mercenaries and pumped up, would be soldiers with tatoos. The disrespect for Andy and other security men killed was horrible.
I made reference also to the fact the US Military did not assist in saving their lives, that was rude and unfounded because I am sure that if they had been around they would have...they obviously must not have been at the scene.
The US Military took care of Andy's body, he was kept at a US Military base and they were the ones that shipped him to England. I have every respect for that and for the work they are doing over there to restructure the country and protect it's people.
God Bless and keep them safe
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 04, 2004 11:19 PM (jBc7B)
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Thank you June for providing an opportunity for those who knew Andy, even for a few brief fleeting hours to provide a comment on the man Andy.
My friend and I attended Andy's memorial service, as touching and beautiful as it was, made more so by the presence of Tasha's father. I couldn't imagine a more appropriate person to preside over that painful event and he did so, so eloquently.
Andy provided a few services for me and over the duration, my friend and I grew very close to Andy and we know he did with us. Andy had that way about him. He affected you in a way that you just naturally felt he was your friend and vice versa. A man's man who you felt was on your side but heaven help you if Andy had you in his sights.
Andy was a unique individual, most certainly without question, one of a kind. I know that those who knew Andy, would agree, if I may be so bold to say so and believe me I am envious of those who knew Andy well. I will remember Andy as a chameleon of sorts, as when we met several times he would sometimes look strikingly different depending on his assignment, but after sitting down over a coffee, it was Andy. But I must admit a couple of times it took some getting used to.
Andy was open and honest and connected with you when communicating - talking with Andy was a special event - it was a connection - he plugged in to you. That is so rare today as we move so quickly between our appointments being half aware of who we are talking to while the other half plans on who we have to talk with next - BUT NOT ANDY - when you were jawing with him over a cup of Java, he was right there in the present, carpe diem.
And everyone around us knew that too - because Andy had a commanding presence. Not only for his fitness, and good looks but for his confidence and gregarious and warm nature as well.
We have been devastated by this event. No words could describe the pain and sorrow and loss we feel ourselves and more so for Tasha and the children and the families. Also Andy's Baraka bond with his friends, and he told me how that came about and the tattoos and the special places they go to. What an honour it was that Andy would share such a special place.
No names were given of those friends or where they went but you knew they were exceptionally special to Andy by how he talked about them - just last summer, sitting over a coffee, sunburned Mr. Clean with a sunburned flaking nose, looking like the cat that just ate the bird - a kid - so happy and content and very very tired after coming back from a trip with the Baraka boys. I suppose they played hard too.
We will be unable to forget Andy because that is the effect he had on us. Andy infused you with his presence, leaving a feeling and memory that can never be erased.
We are so grateful to have met and spent time with Andy, a star that will shine forever in our minds and our hearts.
Much love to all who knew Andy, even for the wink of an eye, as I'm sure you would feel the same sense of loss as we still feel today.
Posted by: Dan at April 05, 2004 12:05 AM (Hpefv)
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Dan, thank you so much for that.
Thank you for reinforcing the positive at this difficult time, it is so easy to slip into the negatives right now and hearing from you has helped.
I know that you must have been really important to Andy for him to tell you those things and to know that he had good friends like you in Victoria makes me happy.
I will forward this to my family, I consider it a tribute. Thank you Dan
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 05, 2004 03:08 PM (O3eG+)
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I am sorry for your loss.
I knew Andy briefly when he attended Sir John Franklin High School in Yellowknife. I remember we used to hang out behind the school during breaks and what not. He had talked about how he was very interested in the military and making a difference in the world. I thought he was very ambitious at the time but he also seemed the type to follow through with his plans am not at all surprised how successful he was at it. I am sorry that he is gone but glad that he managed to live and die the way he wanted to as an example of what we can achieve if we want something bad enough.
It's not about money, glory or fame. It's about doing what needs to be done. My hat's off.
Andy my man, you died with your boots on holding true to your beliefs. How many of us can say that for themselves? Gooder on ya buddy.
Carpe Diem! Excelsior!
K
Posted by: Keith at April 05, 2004 04:38 PM (qnlzY)
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Don't you ever worry about that "f" word, June, it has crossed my lips many times over this past week, along with many tears, non-sleep, and anger!
I am Dan's friend whom he mentioned in his post earlier today. I can think of no other words to add to Danny's thoughts and feelings. I feel the same way.
Andy provided protective services to me over the past year, and accompanied me to, during and from an ongoing and very ugly and frightening court trial.
I thought at first that it would be difficult or uncomfortable having someone I didn't know very well there with me to here all the terrible happenings that had transpired while I was giving direct testimony, but as soon as I met Andy, I trusted him completely. We already know why I felt this way, as would anyone who knew Andy well, or even had just known him for a short time.
He was so very supportive and he allowed me to draw strength from him.
During a couple of day-long and painful stints on the stand, I would only need to look over and make eye contact with him...and what I got back was a wink, a nod, and a reassurance that I was doing OK. After seeing me safely to my vehicle each time, there was always a reassuring hug.
This man, this wonderful person -Andy Bradsell, gave much more than what I would ever have expected from just a "bodyguard". He was my friend, because I could FEEL that he cared about me and my children.
If I am not being too selfish, I would like to say to Andy...."Andy, you told me that indeed something must be done about this (my) ongoing situation. You would have tried to be with me next time in a couple of months. You, my friend, are even larger than life now. Perhaps a quiet tap on the right shoulder by you to the 'powers that be' to make them be truly wise in this scewed up earthly system could make your thoughts and words become a reality in what you saw and heard while both hearing and witnessing my encounter in life."
I am scared about next time, but I will go there next time with the spirit and support you have given me.
Thank you for helping me, Andy. You were a bright light in my unnecessary and seemingly continuing torment in life. Thank you for caring about me. I miss you and I will never forget you.
With love,
Michelle
Posted by: Michelle at April 05, 2004 09:21 PM (PWzcw)
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When I saw the picture of Andy in a newspaper I cannot beleive it. I thought it happened to somebody else with a same name. But there was no mistake here. I met Andy about 7 years ago. I was translating on Japanese for one of his high profile clients. He told me about his business. He just established his Academy at that time and he was very exited about it. I remember him beeng very nice person very strong and very kind at the same time. It seems he loved life and people. He was curious about how people lived in the other parts of the world outside north America. He liked to travel a lot. He asked me about Japan and other countries I've been. I liked to answer his questions because it is not that common that people from North America care about people from other countries and continents. He was the worldy person.People from many countries will remember him .
I want to mention one thing I have in my mind and kind of bothers me. I would like to say to people in Canada and United States: You used to live in a safe and protected continent. I groun up in the country torned by wars and political instability.You should calkulate all the risks before sending your loved ones to a dangerous places. It is not a game going on there, it is real war where people could be killed. I think no money earned could replace your loved ones. Andy was not soldier on duty and he could avoid going to Iraq.But it seems like there was nobody there to talk him off going to Iraq at that moment.
Posted by: Nadia at April 06, 2004 04:25 AM (OLddl)
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To Keith, Michelle and Nadia.
Thank you for your kind words and thoughts about Andy. I can tell that he was special to you too, as he was to all that met him.
Keith: Andy loved his time in Yellowknife, the snowmobiling and scenery. I may have met you when I visited, they were his "awkward teenage years". I have a fabulous punk picture of him, I bet you had a lot of fun, he was so hilarious and energetic even then.
Michelle: I know what you mean about that nod and wink, it could make everything right, it did for me many times. Next time you go to court I am sure that you will feel his presence there. If you get scared just think of him and you will find strength.
Nadia: Yes, he was so interested in other countries and cultures. As a body guard he was well travelled, he worked in Miami on a security team for Madonna and Jean Claude Van Damme, to name a few. He also worked in Madagascar as head of security for an Emerald mine and the Phillipines. He loved to mix with the locals. One of my favourite stories is how the kids in Madagascar loved him because he used to do stunts on the all terrain vehicle for them. If he had been in Iraq under different circumstances, he would have embraced the Iraqi's as friends.
As for not sending him there, what can I say. Everyone tried until they were blue in the face to talk him out of it. Andy did what he wanted and you knew that once he made up his mind, you were wasting your breath. I admired that about him but it cost him his life. Or maybe this was his destiny, we cannot change destiny. He lived such a full life and had crammed a lifetime into his 34 years..maybe he knew. If God took him to help save the world with all his expertise and compassion we should see some big Andy style changes soon...I hope so.
My love to all of you and my thanks, I pass on all these comments to our family and in years to come his children can read them in a scrapbook.
Two of Andy's most used words were "horrendous" and "joyous". Fitting for his life and his death.
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 06, 2004 01:50 PM (XrrTl)
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Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not here, I do not sleep
I am the thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sun on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain
I am the shining stars at night
When you awake to the morning light
I am the soft uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight
My time has come, I am at rest
I am the sunset in the west
I am the clouds that race above
Where I watch over those I love
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not here, I do not die
So hear the words that here I say
I am the love that guides your way.
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 06, 2004 03:35 PM (XrrTl)
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The first time I met Andy, was the day of my 19th birthday. The Baraka Boys came to my parents farm to go hunting. I remember being nervous about meeting Andy, Dennis, and Gaz. Throughout the years I heard many funny stories, and also talked to the boys on the phone. I've seen many photos of the Baraka Boys on there many adventures.
Although I was nervous, it passed as soon as we shook hands. It was so nice to finally meet my brothers best friends. We celebrated my birthday, but it also was a reunion for the Baraka Boys.
I didn't know Andy as well as I would have like to, but through my brother he became an important part of my family. My family is very close, any friend of my family is also a friend of mine.
I have been blessed to have met Andy, and for my brother to have that strong of a friendship with such a good man.
My deepest sympathy to Andys Wife, Children Family, and Friends
Posted by: Mike's Sister Stacey at April 07, 2004 07:44 PM (5UIwM)
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To the Bradsell family and friends,
I wish to express my sincere condolences and compassion for your great loss. Andy was admired by so many and will be missed so much..I am so sorry!
Andy was a stellar man..in every way, I was given an opportunity to learn from Andy at his academy in Edmonton, it was a experience that I'll never forget. The rapport he had with his students was amazing, but he was a master at what he did...I am proud to know of such men that walk this Earth.
I got to know him on a breif scale, through other friends, through some of the business that he was involved in, even my nickname was given to me by him....never will change that! Andy was a man that you could count on, he had your back and your front....he was every where.
What I do know of Andy is that he loved his family, kids and the "Lads"....a brotherhood in a sense.
His sense of humour and keen witt was second to none....you just couldn't compete with his retorts...or slags....he will be missed so much!
And to his parents, I commend you for his
up-bringing, morales and the values he possessed!
Andy was a well respected man, a man of honour and of strength.
....thank you Andy for your direction and friendship
Go in peace brother!
Ging
Posted by: ging at April 08, 2004 04:56 AM (7y2db)
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I was intensely saddened when I heard about Andy's death in the Grimsby Evening Telegraph last week.
When I was a teenager I knew Andy for a short time when he played ice hockey for the Grimsby Dynamoes. Hr was always very quiet and unassuming (unlike most of the members of the team!!) and was always polite.
Late last year, I was talking to my daughter - who is now a teenage hockey player herself- about the memories I have of the game when I first started to get involved in it, and Andy's name popped in my head. I did a search on the internet and found his email and on the off chance sent him a note to see if it was the "same" Andy.
I was amased when he replied that it was, and he was really chatty although we didn't really know each other at all. It really made my day to think that someone from such a long time ago still remembered me. He told me about his beautiful wife and children and how they enjoy going out in the boat to see the whales. I was really happy that his life was complete.
So the news last week really shook me. I am just pleased that I took the chance when I remembered him to speak to him when I did. I am going back home to Grimsby at the weekend, and will be going ice skating at the rink. I am sure it will never feel the same after this.
He was a lovely kid, and a wonderful man. My sympathy goes out to his wife and children, and all the family.
Posted by: JoAnne at April 08, 2004 06:00 AM (RF0Mn)
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Andy was a great freind growing up in sherwood park and knowing him and his family makes me a better person today. and the memories we shared will live in my heart forever.my family and myself wish the best for john,linda,sam and kelly
Posted by: travis pipella at April 08, 2004 02:14 PM (2+Uw9)
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DEAREST JUNE, OH MY GOD! I HAVE BEEN AWAY, MY DAUGHTER HAS JUST TOLD ME. I AM IN SHOCK! I CAN'T FIND WORDS TO TYPE. NO WORDS WILL BRING HIM BACK. ANDY WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART AS THE LOVELY SON OF MY BEST FRIENDS. I KNOW YOU ARE A GOOD LOVING FAMILY, MY HEART IS WITH YOU ALL AT THIS TIME. Linda x
Posted by: Linda Liles at April 09, 2004 05:23 AM (c2Qsr)
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i just wanted to say that my families prayers are with the the bradsell family at this time. i pray that you find some comfort in all the support of family and friends. take care.
jim drew
Posted by: jim drew at April 09, 2004 01:26 PM (dEQzE)
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So, a less anonymous post than the first one.
How amazing to see people's names that I may never have even thought of from so many years ago, and all the rest of the people who crossed paths with Andy briefly or otherwise. A true testament to who Andy was and will always remain, in my mind.
I spent a good deal of my 'formative' years with Andy, Travis, etc... in Sherwood Park. None of was surprised to learn he'd joined the Royal Marines, it seemed obvious in fact. None of us was surprised to learn that he'd finished his training in the top spot, even while injured. Absolutely no one was surprised to hear Andy's stories of working for all the stars that he did. The point is, he'd always seemed destined for some great thing, and while I know that is something that is altogether too often said about individuals in a case like this, the fact is that it is true.
I hadn't seen Andy in a couple years. I've spoken to him six or seven times over the past two years, spoke to him as he fed his son once - he sounded so happy. I was supposed to meet him in Kelowna last summer and didn't make it and I get so mad when I think about that missed opportunity. I was on the island a couple of months ago and couldn't find the time to phone him. So ridiculous.
Sat down in a pub in Sechelt and opened the newspaper to see a picture of my friend Andy. So proud, showed the waitress, "That's a friend of mine", I say.
Slam
No words I write here or anywhere else or say out loud to anyone will not feel trite, will not feel as though I cannot do justice to my friend. I will say this though: I've been talking to our friend D. a lot about almost everything we could remember about Andy from back in the day, or from the last few years and the great part is that whenever we do, we laugh. Andy singing in the pub, nose and finger in the air, "The Queen of li-hights took her bow...", ditching school to go hunting, trying to make a while Valiant look cool, "Hey Kids..." - all right, an inside joke, but if you know you'll laugh. And we always will.
and I cannot stand the fact that he's gone.
and I guess that it will eventually sink in.
My heart to Andy's family and to all the rest of his friends.
Posted by: Mark at April 11, 2004 05:06 AM (r9WO5)
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Mark, thank you for returning and expanding on your memories of Andy. Believe me when I say I know how hard that was.
Larger than life is a cliche only for those who've never known anyone who embodies that phrase.
Nobody who hasn't been through it can understand how it is to lose someone to hostile action. Nobody can understand the anger, pain and fierce pride that memories of men like Andy evoke, who, like Achilles, chose lives of excellence over safer but woefully mediocre lives.
Such people didn't lead lives of quiet desperation.
I don't know if that helps, it's just how I finally found peace. Their feet were on a path few of us tread, and they accepted and strode down it with purpose and determination. What a blessing to know them, and even if the pain never goes away entirely, the gratitude and awe of their memories come to overshadow the pain.
Posted by: Debbye at April 11, 2004 11:47 AM (Y0TzN)
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My sincere sympathy goes out to the Bradsell family, Tasha, and friends during this difficult time.
I will miss Andy very much. He was a man of many qualities, but the two qualities that stand out in my mind are his honor and integrity. Being a graduate of Andy's school in Edmonton, I was fortunate enough to work with Andy in Madagascar. I will always have fond memories of him and the "boys" during our time there. I feel honored and blessed for knowing Andy in this lifetime. In my eyes, he was a great man and lived life to the fullest. He will be missed. Till we meet again my friend...
Posted by: Rommel at April 12, 2004 12:57 AM (gScHt)
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The News has reached Asia. Then until now I have tried to make sense of why such an incredible man has been taken from our lives.
The past days I have been thinking about the times I had with Andy. Weather it had been hunting, camping or just hanging out. Andy always had a great story to tell and a thousand jokes to make you laugh. He was a very special person to be around and he had a gift to make the people he was around feel special too. But all the people that have written something above know exactly where IÂ’m coming from! He had obviously touched your life the same way as he had touched mine.
I grew up with Andy in Sherwood Park. I met Andy a couple of years before he decided to go to the Marines. I remember Andy talking about going to the U.K to start his Military training. I can remember how I felt that I wouldnÂ’t see him for awhile. I remember when he returned from it and how happy I was to see him again. When he returned is when I really started to notice that he was a unique individual he was that made anyone around him want to get closer to him. I had always been so impressed by AndyÂ’s accomplishments and proud to have been a friend. He really accomplished so much in such little time.
I received an e-mail from Andy not to long ago. I havenÂ’t chatted with him for awhile due the fact we both work in different parts of the world. As I read his mail I could hear his voice which made me truly smile. Anyone who knew Andy knows he always had a cool word or a saying that you wonder where he had got it from, but soon enough he had you saying them! AndyÂ’s last words written to me were:
Love, hugs and a swift kick in the sack,
Yakisumo Horigato
I have some property of AndyÂ’s that I would like to return to the family. I know that they moved to Victoria but I have had no contact with them. Please feel free to contact me at sp.ent2001@msa.hinet.net
My condolences to the family of Andy and friends,
Posted by: Shaun at April 12, 2004 05:23 AM (KuIyO)
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I to was a friend of Andy's growing up in Sherwood Park and was very saddened by this news. My heart goes out to his family.
Posted by: Ted Evans at April 12, 2004 01:31 PM (l2M8d)
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This is for Aunty June,
I had a dream about Andy. In the dream he asked me to pass a message onto his wife and his children. My husband is the close protection officer from South Africa who was going to assist in forming a training school with Andy for Close Protection Officers.
Since his passing, I have had several dreams of Andy and in all of them he asks me to tell Tasha and his children that he is watching over them. He says that it is not the end, that he is just on the other side and that he will always be with them. He says that he will come to Tasha in her dreams, to comfort her. He says that she must trust him and know that they will be together again.
I met my husband, also a Close Protection officer, in the line of duty when he protected my daughter and I. My husband is a fine and noble man, like Andy Bradsell.
Andy is a warrior on the Good side...his spirit lives on and he truly does watch over the innocent.
Lisa
Posted by: Lisa Haeck at April 13, 2004 02:40 AM (BYG6A)
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And yet another old friend of Andy's from Sherwood Park - working in Taiwan at the moment. I have strong, fond memories of Andy, even though I haven't seen him for years. From time to time, mutual friends closer to Andy have told me about his successes - that he was in the Royal Marines etc. Made me proud to have known him - to have crossed his path. A true hero - larger than life. I'm saddened by this tragedy, sick of this crap in Iraq. It sure hits hard when it affects people you know. My love, condolences and best wishes to all. Joel
Posted by: Joel Finnestad at April 14, 2004 12:34 AM (yjpfO)
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Sorry that I have not been on here for a few days
and thank you Debbye for the e mail letting me know that there were more kind words from friends.
I pass on these comments to his parents, sisters and "the Baraka boys". I am also keeping a scrapbook for his kids to look at in the future and know how well loved and admired their father was.
I see some very familiar names in here and want to thank you all for taking the time to share your words and feelings, many of you from overseas
Mark: Are you the little blonde haired boy that had the band with Andy? I still remember the words to your first song "some folks say that disco's in, let me tell you baby that's a sin", "there's only one sound thats got the soul, listen to me now it's "rock and roll". Chorus DUH
DUH DUH DUH. You and Andy were very good, him on drums, you on guitar. If it is you I hear that you are a successful touring guitarist now.. well done Mark. When you didn't make the time to see him or phone Mark, it is ok. You didn't know that this would happen and he knew that everyone cared but had their busy lives to live. Last time he was here, he was too busy running out the door to go hunting and I only managed to get a kiss and a hug. That is not what we should remember, cherish all your good memories Mark, he did.
Lisa: I have had similar messages from Andy myself and the family know, thank you for your kind words. An eagle has been circling Tasha's house and was there when we entered the funeral on Thursday and when we left. Tycho said "I think that my dad's spirit is in that eagle"..I think so too. What better way to observe us and still go fishing and hunting!
Travis, Jim, Joel, Shaun and Ted: He loved you guys and I know you loved him too.
Travis: Samantha and Kelly are in town, I know that they would love to hear from you. Kelly is 7 months pregnant and after the funeral Samantha announced that she is pregnant too. I didn't expect to see a look of joy on my brother and sister in law's face that day..but there it was.
I think that Andy is still playing tricks on us!
The rest of the family will be coming here too and we will be holding a service in Sherwood Park, the date will be in the local paper when we know.
Linda Liles: Linda, you guys go back a long way, I am sure that you have phoned John and Lynda by now. I know your heart is aching, as ours are too. Keep in touch.
Rommel and Ging: I remember you guys from the Academy, I think that I played the hit man in your final exam..not many aunties can say that!
I am glad that you had the opportunity to know and experience Andy, thank you for your commments
Joanne: I would like to get a copy of the e mail from Andy if you still have it. Let me know how I can contact you. All the best with your skating and thank you for taking the time to write to Andy, you can hold that dear to your heart now.
To the Sherwood Park gang: You were a crazy bunch of kids, it was my pleasure to watch you all grow up, especially Andy who you will agree was somewhat of the ring leader.
Has anyone heard from Scott, Jay or Damien?
I will pass on your comments to Andy's parents
and sisters.
Debbye, I want to thank you personally for having this link and for the support that you have shown us. The compassion, love and understanding that you have shown toward Andy and his family and friends is moving. You have proved to me, in the midst of my sadness, that there are so many more good people in this world than bad. That, loving thy neighbour does not always mean knowing them. Andy had that kind of love for those that he knew and for those that he did not. He proved that in risking his life for strangers, both in supporting the rebuilding of Iraq and in saving the lifes of four men.
Andy's grandfather was a sea captain, when fishing off Cape Town, South Africa he saved the lives of some Portuguese men working in the engine room. There was a fire and he went in himself and got burnt. Their families overwhelmed him with their gratitude. He is 82 and Andy was "a chip off the old block"
Andy's father also saved the lives of a family in Grimsby when their house caught fire. He received a medal from the fire department, he was only a teenager himself at the time. The baby Deana Hall, was the last one in the house, he nearly died bringing that baby out. She is alive today because of John.
I am very proud of my family, Andy showed the same kind of courage that was obviously "in his blood".
Andy would be proud too, that he was loved and remembered this way.
Thank you all.
Auntie June
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 14, 2004 10:30 AM (ibzH9)
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To Mike's sister, Stacey
You have a wonderful brother Stacey. Andy and Mike were like brothers themselves. Andy admired Mike's quiet wisdom just as much as Mike admired Andy's vibrant outgoing personality. The Baraka Boys will continue to hunt and fish, of that I am sure. They plan to take Tycho too and John Hunter when he is older. I understand that it is not too far from your place where Andy's ashes will be spread in their favourite area. I am in touch with Mike at Tasha's house, he has been so supportive to her and the kids and to us all. Mike is always there when you need him, Andy told me that about him.
Our love to you and your family.
Auntie June
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 14, 2004 11:26 AM (ibzH9)
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There are so many things in our lives that don't make sense, and Andy's death is one of them. From out of chaos comes knowledge and understanding, but in order to hear we must listen closely to what our feelings are telling us. When I read the many captions of Andy's life, I see an explaination of the greatest gift given man, which is the ability to move people in a postive direction. I realize that Andy's life was based on a desire to protect, love and repect others. To me these are qualitie's of a Guardian Angle. In this way I see Andy as a spirit that will never die, unless his absence causes his loved ones to die inside. To keep his Spirit alive, we must all act, in the Spirit his life had laid out to us. If his life gave happeness to others, they already know the way of his Spirit. Because we have learned this way, through him, to act in the same manner is to be moved by his Spirit.
Those who were the closest to Andy, will grieve his loss the most but during every hour of every day they must work towards being as happy as Andy's efforts, made them feel while he was alive. If we do not reach this same happeness, then all his efforts in life, fail him in death. This is allowing death to keep it's destructive effects and at the same time veil the Spirit of the one we loved, so much. All those who knew Andy well, must reach out and touch others, in the same way Andy touched them. In this way his Spirit will grow forever.
Gordon&Bonnie
Posted by: Mike's Mom & Dad at April 14, 2004 04:26 PM (OuADh)
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His spirit lives on
Oh wondrous spirit, like an eagle soars
Has left your body but not our shores
Inside each one that you have touched
Lives on, in life and hope and love
Bounteous memories fill our hearts
The gift of you will not depart
You taught us how to laugh and love
Now you watch us from above
Your joyous spirit, we will strive
To honour and to keep alive
By Auntie June
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 15, 2004 11:31 AM (k8YMp)
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All Academy,and CISC associates please E-mail: miambina@yahoo.ca.Leave:E-mail,phone nummber.
Talk to you soon,
Mike
Posted by: Mike Dick at April 16, 2004 01:56 AM (UXYbB)
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Wow, I knew the effect Andy's passing had on me but the depth of that really comes home to you when you hear from others. Andy has always been like a touch stone. No matter where he went, and for what ever reason, after some time (months, years, days) we could come back full circle and sit down together. That kind of thing makes you realize who you are. He goes with me daily, in my head, but I'll always feel like we had one more circle to complete. This is my first knowledge of the effects of war. I think I get it now.
Auntie June, please send my sincerest condolences to John, Linda, Sam, and Kelly and Gaz. I'm sorry I never had a chance to meet Tasha and Andy's kids I guess that was part of completing another circle.
Posted by: Damion at April 16, 2004 10:58 PM (r9WO5)
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I would like to express my deepest sympathies to Andy's family, wife, children and friends.
The news of Andy's death came as a terrible shock. I struggle to find the right words to express my sympathies. To this day I don't think I've ever met anyone as well-rounded as Andy Bradsell. Andy was all good qualities rolled up into one human being. I'm glad to have known him.
Auntie June,
I only met you a couple of times but if you could please pass on my sympathies to your family and especially let Sam know my thoughts and prayers are with you all everyday.
Posted by: Nathalie at April 17, 2004 03:36 AM (2CZyw)
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I never in a million years thought that I would be sitting here reading stories written about a man who had such an impact on so many peoples lives off of a website. Andy was truly an amazing individual with a heart made of gold. Every person that met him felt a contagious energy from him and wanted to be around him. He would go out of his way to help someone out whether he knew them his whole life, a day or a total stranger. Andy had qualities that I have not yet seen in another. He was a remarkable person. I looked up to him, admired him and loved him so much. His life was dedicated to his family and friends, laughter, adventure and bettering the world and human race altogether. Andy died doing what he knew and loved and to me that should give us all some kind of peace! I still will never understand why someone so good could be taken from us so early but I guess he was needed more somewhere else. Andy never will I forget your crazy faces you made, your love of life or the endless stories of growing up. I think that we all need to be a little like Andy, whether it's his crazy side his loving side or his just Andy side, I think that we could all try and make this world a better place. And I think that there would definately be a few more smiles around. My brother you were always a hero and forever will be.
Love sister sam***********
Thank you all from the bottom of my heart for those who have taken the time to write inspiring stories about my brother and to the countless people who have sent cards, flowers, letters and phone calls, and to those who have helped out in so many ways. In a time like this you have all brought a smile to our faces. Thank you!
Posted by: Sam at April 17, 2004 06:34 PM (ZVhZS)
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This is in response to the message posted by Myojo Jolobo April 20. This board is being utilized by family and friends as a means of paying tribute to a man who unknowingly touched and affected the lives of almost everyone he met in a positive way - mine included! He was a great friend and colleague. If Myojo Jolobo feels differently then I invite this person to contact me directly. Possibly we can meet in person and discuss these views in greater detail. Then I will relay my own! Don't worry about time and distance. Anyone who truly knew Andy wil already know that like Andy, his friends are always "just around the corner". So don't be concerned with the inconvenience - I will come to you!
My sincerest condolences to Andy's family and friends. He will be missed.
Posted by: Dean Mooney at April 20, 2004 09:17 AM (3c0Oj)
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This is in response to the message posted by Myojo Jolobo April 20. This board is being utilized by family and friends as a means of paying tribute to a man who unknowingly touched and affected the lives of almost everyone he met in a positive way - mine included! He was a great friend and colleague. If Myojo Jolobo feels differently, then I invite this person to contact me directly. Possibly we can meet in person and discuss these views in greater detail. Then I will relay my own! Don't worry about time and distance. Anyone who truly knew Andy will already understand, that like Andy, his friends are always "just around the corner". So don't be concerned with the inconvenience - I will come to you!
My sincerest condolences to Andy's family and friends. He will be missed.
Posted by: Dean Mooney at April 20, 2004 09:21 AM (3c0Oj)
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Sorry to every one who has lost him.
I have relatives and friends who also dies in Iraq in defending their country. Thousands of women & children killed without mercy nor feelings.
May Andy lie and rest in peace!!
Posted by: myojo jolobo at April 21, 2004 02:58 AM (NKlXt)
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... And want to know why actually he was killed, visit http://www.investigate911.com/itsbushstupid.htm
Posted by: myojo jolobo at April 21, 2004 05:54 AM (JUTZF)
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myojo jolobo: The people that my nephew went to protect were trying to restore electricity to the people of Iraq. He was a friend of Iraq, not an enemy. These people would not go if someone was not "watching their back", he was not a mercenary, he was a security expert. Obviously he did his job, too well.
This website is for family and friends paying tribute to Andy, a fine man. If you would like to discuss the details of the war, please find another website.
My condolences for your loss too, I presume then that you understand that we are honouring the memory of our family member here. May I suggest that you do the same, somewhere else.
Thank you.
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 21, 2004 09:26 AM (EG0zQ)
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June, sorry to be late to this party; I only got off work but you said everything I would have said anyway.
myojo jolobo, today's bombing in Basra should remind you precisely who is killing Iraqis, and I too am angered at those who deliberately target civlians who are innocently going about their daily lives.
I've never banned anyone before but my tolerance is limited and should not be confused with indecisiveness. You've backed away from the line and I am content with that, but the next time you cross it, you will be summarily banned.
Posted by: Debbye at April 21, 2004 03:47 PM (t+vAy)
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I'm sorry to get carried away with what happening in Iraq.
I'll backed away from this line.
So sorry ...
Posted by: myojo jolobo at April 21, 2004 10:46 PM (223am)
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I went to the gym the other day and ran into an old friend Brent H. He asked if I remembered Andy Bradsell. I said "now that's a name I haven't heard for a while" "how's he doing?"
That is when I found out what happened.
My deepest sympathies and condolences to the his family especially Samantha. I know it has been a long time but I often thought of you guys and the fun things we did back in the Knife and the few times I visited Sherwood Park. Winter Quading with Andy, the odd social gathering, master of puppets on 54th street (I think that was it), Tea time. I'm sure my bro has allot more than I do.
Anarchy!
God bless you Andy.
-Ian
PS still in YK, Firefighter www.ykfire.com
Posted by: Ian at April 22, 2004 12:15 AM (kOyOd)
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I want to thank everyone that paid tribute to Andy on this website. He had such wonderful friends. I hope that he will be an inspiration to you, when you face the trials and tribulations of life, think of him and realize that no problem is to big to solve. You have life, which is a gift, cherish those close to you and try to live your life with the same gusto that Andy did.
I am posting an e mail sent by Andy from Iraq. It was sent to his best friend Mike, giving his secrets about his wilderness experience and his love of hunting. I know that you will agree, he was an exceptional writer and an exceptional man.
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 28, 2004 12:37 PM (IVA4p)
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Written by Andy Bradsell, e mailed from Iraq to his best friend Mike.
When I'm sitting in a tree stand or a ground blind, in my own mind, I become the forest and the creatures that live in it. I'll look at a squirrel or a bird and plan where I'd go to next if I were them after seeing me...I wonder what they think of my presence as a human is in their home...I try my hardest to feel like the leaves of the trees and the branches that hold them...as this is what provides them the security they know. When I'm in the woods, I think of nothing but the contents of those woods...I never think of troubles or worries, I never think of exciting times or pleasures outside the woods...in my mind, those thoughts generate a field that is alien to the woods and the animals that reside there. I react to every movement and sound...as if I were the deer itself...not in physical movement...but in curiosity, alertness and pulse. I hear a branch snap and move my head slowly in that direction...everything in the forest freezes except the sound of crunching leaves or hooves on crusty snow...all movement freezes except for that of ears, antlers, tails or eyes...nothing else exists...nothing. Sometimes I stare and listen so hard and so long that when I finally decide that it must have just been a branch falling off of an old tree...all the sounds and movements of nature that were frozen by me in my search...thaw in a micro second and come back to life with such intensity that it makes me jump...like a very close thunder clap. When the light is beginning to fail...I ALWAYS use every entity of my being to summons the chick-a-dees...sometimes they never come. But...when they do come, and I always hear them first from a distance...they ALWAYS bring with them a glimpse of a deer...ALWAYS. If they ever land in the tree where I wait, that deer will present a shot for me...then...the choice is mine...do I...or don't I???
That, my friend, is me in the woods.
Oscar............ .............................OUT!!!
Posted by: June Bradsell at April 28, 2004 12:43 PM (IVA4p)
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A toast to the chick-a-dees! There are a couple of nests cohabiting my friend's house and that is now a very good thing.
I've saved this email, from an expert mind.
I don't know who Debbye is or how this site came about, but I just want Debbye to know how much its existence is appreciated. It is a beautiful legacy for a great guy and thank you for providing this opportunity for global recognition.
Posted by: Dan at May 01, 2004 12:52 AM (Hpefv)
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Dan, I'm just somebody who read about Andy in the papers and wanted to recognize his heroism.
The real value of this page lies in the comments and stories you all have contributed, and I thank you for teaching me more about Andy.
Posted by: Debbye at May 01, 2004 10:27 AM (aeiPR)
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On behalf of myself, Pete Watts, Sam Murray, Marti and all the other Marines and locals that fondly remember Brad during his time in Plymouth, England. I would like to convey our deepest sympathies to all his family and friends. Remember him well....we do!
Kindest regards
Posted by: Baz at May 06, 2004 04:07 PM (msRZG)
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To Andys family from mine, to say sorry for your loss is not enough, but you have my deepest sympathies, regrets and condolences. I have been unable to post anything since i stumbled across this tribute a couple of weeks ago, i have been trying to find the right words but you cant procrastinate for ever.
Bradsell was one of the very few men that I met in my life that impressed me, he had an aura that only those that knew him could understand, his professionalism and attitude to his career and his life was second to none,
His humour was legendry and god forbid anyone take him on, we have all tried and no one i know, including myself could succeed.
But it was his heart that always made him bigger than the rest of us, i have been humbled by things he has done.
Through our time at the academy and pursuit of dreams around the world , you used to call me the mouth of the south, this time mate Im lost for words.
I lost contact with Andy for some ridiculous reasons but i did speak to him about 6 months ago, Little john had just been born and i could feel his pride through the phone, he was the happiest i had ever heard him.
To June, I know you were more than Andys Aunt, and you were so close, Im so sorry for your loss.
To Andys Parents and sisters you created a unique indivual , my deepest sympathies for you loss.
To Tasha and the girls, your husband and father was one of the best men I ever met, i know you completed his life I am very sorry he is gone.
To The boys werever you all are remember the good, stand up raise your glasses and turn up those tunes for the man we all knew and loved
Andy Bradsell.
To And from me, To Us, To Those like Us and F..K all the rest!! Rest in Peace Mate.
Ps. for moloblojob or whatever your name is get in touch, we'll have a pint !!!!!!!
Posted by: Armstrong at May 07, 2004 12:07 PM (pAByo)
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I haven't been on here for a while, I thought that Andy's e mail from Iraq about his wilderness experience was the last thing on here.
I am so happy to see postings from the Brits.
Sam Murray and all his mates from there meant so much to Andy. You knew him so well, like only we did.
If anyone can come back or make a difference from up there...it will be Andy, won't it.
Thanks guys for your love of Andy and you remembrance of Andy.
What a guy aye!
For Armstrong...are you Neil? Thank you for your words and for saying that I was more than an aunt.
You know, as I do that Andy was someone very special and that in some ways, it was Andy that made us all more special, better for knowing him, better for loving him.
Posted by: June Bradsell at May 10, 2004 02:35 AM (QIYYl)
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June
The post was from Andy Armstrong
Posted by: Armstrong at May 11, 2004 03:01 PM (SlvTh)
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Hi to all of Andy's friends on here.
Tasha would like to contact you all directly, to thank you and to share your thoughts and stories.
I hope that you will all agree for me to pass on your e mail addresses to her.
Let me know if it is ok.
Debbye is kindly posting a picture of Andy and of his son John Hunter, who looks just like him...right down to the funny faces he pulls, you'll see.
Thanks and love to you all.
Auntie Juney
Posted by: June Bradsell at May 13, 2004 10:58 AM (S0ZeN)
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I just noticed that the photo's are already on here at the top of the site before all your wonderful comments. The first photograph is with Tasha and Andy's mum and dad. The second of Hunter with his beautiful eyes, I tell you, when you look directly into his eyes you can see Andy so clearly and he has his great temperament too.
Posted by: June Bradsell at May 13, 2004 11:07 AM (S0ZeN)
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Thank you for the posted pictures. Thank you for sharing these personal "shots in time". So much appreciated.
I agree to passing on my email. Through this message board, I have also met a woman whose circumstances are very much like mine. I thank God (and Andy) for this very special contact I have made with this woman.
June: I had emailed you about the "Victoria Tribute"....did you get my email? I am still waiting for a response from them and to hear back from you.
Posted by: Michelle at May 14, 2004 08:49 PM (PWzcw)
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Hi Michelle, I think that your idea to have the Victoria Symphony Orchestra play a tribute to Andy
at the event in August is very nice. I passed your e mail about it on to Tasha, she should be in touch. I also passed your other e mail on to Mike, as discussed. I live at the lake and my computer is on dial up and not always successful, let me know if you do not hear from them soon and I will phone.
Best Regards to you and all.
Posted by: June Bradsell at May 16, 2004 05:08 PM (0kCpE)
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Andy Bradsell, what can I say
He was special in every way
He lived, he loved, he laughed, he cried
His life was a triumph and the way that he died
In my life I will never meet, someone so special and so unique
The love that we feel for him today, will never ever go away
If he see's us from above, he will see and feel our love
And, if he does I know he embraces all your loving, cherished faces
But remember, if he is watching you,
he will "kick your ass" when your feeling blue
He would say, in his special way "cut the crap, and get on with your day"
If you remember Andy the way that I do, you will live life..strong and true
And whenever life just get's you down, remember he is still around
No matter how bad it is, remember the saying that is his
Carpe Diem, Seize the day...embrace it in your own special way
Long may you reign in our hearts and in our minds
Andy...I love you
Posted by: June Bradsell at May 18, 2004 07:04 AM (En2qu)
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I will preface this post by saying that I havenÂ’t turned on the television or read the newspaper in several weeksÂ….
The strangest thing happened to me the other day...I passed by this young boy (he couldn't have been older than 15 or so) and he was wearing a shirt with "The Clash" on it. My first thought was that the kid had probably never even heard The Clash's music and then my second thought was Andy Bradsell. That is kind of how I remember Andy, at 15, with his spiked hair, earrings, British military jacket (adorned with The Clash and The Sex Pistols buttons) and of course his warm smile. The last time I saw Andy I was about 15 myself, but he isnÂ’t a person that you soon forget. He had such a presence about him.
Â…It wasnÂ’t until today that I was reading a tribute to Andy in our local Victoria newspaper when I learned the news of his death. Needless to say, I was shocked. It was, however, interesting to me as I read the tribute and learned where his life had taken him, I wasnÂ’t the least bit surprised that he had joined the military and then subsequently became a highly skilled security expert. I am so proud that for him he had become a man so successful in his career, a husband and a father and a genuine hero.
My sincere condolences go out to Andy's wife and children, his family and friends. Take care of yourselves and each other!
Posted by: Stephanie lee at May 20, 2004 12:52 AM (V5xQ2)
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What can one say about Andy that has not already been said.
I just learned of this surreal event today as I searched on the internet for a number to reach Andy at, as I lost contact with him and Mike over the last few years. I had the honor of having Andy instruct me in Edmonton.
He was a man's, man. Andy was the kind of man that other men wanted to be. What else can I say..
I'm so sorry for the loss.
My fondest memory of Andy was him stand on stage at a Pub in Edmonton leading the crowd in Swing Low Sweet Chariot, with all of the hand gestures.
I have never met another like him.
Swing Low Sweet charrriot......
My best to all,
Kevin
Posted by: Kevin O'Connor at May 28, 2004 11:26 PM (5TA4q)
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Stephanie and Kevin. Thank you for your kind words and for your fond remembrances of Andy.
I too remember Andy's punk years, he was always so authentic even when he was a kid. He played the drums with passion and skill, just like he lived his life.
Thank you for that memory of Andy doing the Swing Low Sweet Chariot song with the actions, I saw that too, many times. I believe that it is a British Royal Marines skit. He was awesome when he stood up there on that stage, larger than life with all the confidence of a man that knew who he was and was proud of who he was.
We lost "the best of us" when we lost Andy and everyone that knew him understands what I mean.
All I can say to all of you is, none of us know when our time is up but Andy lived life to the fullest and made the time that he did have worthwhile.
Our family are devastated by our loss, I assumed the position on this website when others could not speak. In time they will be in touch with you all on an individual basis.
Andy was a fine man and he had some fine friends..to you, his friends I send our love and thanks.
Posted by: June Bradsell at May 29, 2004 03:48 PM (EF4Mq)
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Story of love, Story of Andy
Feelings, who can deny them, who would deny them they are what make us who we are.
Yet, a need to deny some feelings that I have lately is real. Deny grief, deny Andy’s death, to deny my lack of understanding of the greater picture.
In my life, I will never know another like him, like Andy. Like a lighthouse, a beacon in the dark, a safe haven, of hope, of trust, a rock to cling to in the stormiest of seas.
To lose him, is like losing the light, like being lost in the dark, in a massive ocean of darkness.
We must learn to see in the dark, we must learn to find him in the darkness, must learn to find each other in the darkness.
Ironically, Tasha’s dad chose this poem for the memorial service, he did not know that it is our family favourite:
Sea Fever
I must down to the seas again, to the lonely sea and the sky,
And all I ask is a tall ship and a star to steer her by,
And the wheel's kick and the wind's song and the white sail's shaking,
And a grey mist on the sea's face, and a grey dawn breaking.
I must down to the seas again, for the call of the running tide
Is a wild call and a clear call that may not be denied;
And all I ask is a windy day with the white clouds flying,
And the flung spray and the blown spume, and the sea-gulls crying.
I must down to the seas again, to the vagrant gypsy life,
To the gull's way and the whale's way where the wind's like a whetted knife;
And all I ask is a merry yarn from a laughing fellow-rover
And quiet sleep and a sweet dream when the long trick's over.
Posted by: June Bradsell at June 12, 2004 03:05 AM (dBqiX)
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Story of love, Story of Andy
Feelings, who can deny them, who would deny them they are what make us who we are.
Yet, a need to deny some feelings that I have lately is real. Deny grief, deny Andy's death, to deny my lack of understanding of the greater picture.
In my life, I will never know another like him, like Andy. Like a lighthouse, a beacon in the dark, a safe haven, of hope, of trust, a rock to cling to in the stormiest of seas.
To lose him, is like losing the light, like being lost in the dark, in a massive ocean of darkness.
We must learn to see in the dark, we must learn to find him in the darkness, must learn to find each other in the darkness.
Ironically, Tasha's dad chose this poem for the memorial service, he did not know that it is our family favourite:
Sea Fever
I must down to the seas again, to the lonely sea and the sky,
And all I ask is a tall ship and a star to steer her by,
And the wheel's kick and the wind's song and the white sail's shaking,
And a grey mist on the sea's face, and a grey dawn breaking.
I must down to the seas again, for the call of the running tide
Is a wild call and a clear call that may not be denied;
And all I ask is a windy day with the white clouds flying,
And the flung spray and the blown spume, and the sea-gulls crying.
I must down to the seas again, to the vagrant gypsy life,
To the gull's way and the whale's way where the wind's like a whetted knife;
And all I ask is a merry yarn from a laughing fellow-rover
And quiet sleep and a sweet dream when the long trick's over.
Posted by: June Bradsell at June 12, 2004 03:13 AM (dBqiX)
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To Tasha & all Andy's family, I wish you all the best at this very sad time. I am the Aussie friend of Mae . June , you know who I am talking about. My nephew Peter , was with Andy when he was killed. He too ,is ex special forces working in Iraq and let me tell you all, Andy is indeed a true hero, and that is from Peter who was with him in the other vehicle. Andy & Pete became best friends from the very first day they met.
Peter was home for 4 weeks & has just gone back last sunday. these guys are doing an amazing job , to help Iraq get back on its feet, to help the iraqi people, and I just want to say how , we here in Australia are very proud of all the guys like Andy & Peter and their mates for the job they are doing.
Peter will go to Canada in January 2005 to visit Tasha and meet the rest of Andy's family. I have read all the other posts and Peter was right, when he said , the world has lost one amazing, kind, gentle man.
warmest regards
Gaz
Australia.
Posted by: Gary White at July 10, 2004 08:40 PM (oEinn)
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Gary, the strange coincidence of our finding out that Pete and Andy meeting in Iraq.
Andy too, had written to his family about his great new friends. I am so happy that Andy was amongst people that he cared greatly about and obviously they felt the same way too. We look forward to meeting Pete, we wish it could have been different with him visiting Andy and no doubt fishing and drinking a few pints!
It is very strange, maybe yet another message from Andy that we would never have made this connection, all the way from Australia, had you not known my best friend Mae.
Thank you for passing on the e mail to me from Pete. I would like to get directly in touch with him but will e mail you privately to arrange that.
Pete will be safe with Andy watching over him.
Auntie June
Posted by: June Bradsell at July 12, 2004 04:35 PM (Kwl0l)
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I have just heard about your loss. Andy and I knew each other, when he was in commando training back in 89.We had a lot of fun out on the town. I will remember him. Take care
Posted by: troy robson at July 27, 2004 11:23 AM (KHzhK)
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Andy was a true friend. Sometimes words just arent enough for a man like Andy, A true force of nature who had a big impact on me and a lot of other people. I always thought our paths would cross again sometime in the future. It was only on Saturday night that I was talking to a mate about Andy and how much he meant to me.
Andy exemplified the commando spirit:
He worked hard and he played hard. He was totally selfless and wouldnt hesitate to help a mate out in trouble.
The world is a quieter place without him.
My thoughts go out to the Bradsell family and Tasha & the kids.
A friend always
Per Mare Pere Terram
Tris Gallagher
Posted by: Tris Gallagher at July 29, 2004 07:39 PM (X8gnr)
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Andy was my friend. We went through commando training together and its under those conditions that you realise exactly who your friends are. He exemplified what it is to be a Royal Marine. He worked hard and he played hard. He was completly selfless and no matter how hard it got he always had a smile on his face at the end of it.
So many good times...
Im going to miss Andy a lot, he was a force of nature and he brought a lot of laughter into my life.
I raise a glass to you Andy.
Take it easy bro
Tris Gallagher
"High Flight"
Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;
Sunward I've climbed, and joined the tumbling mirth
Of sun-split clouds - and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of - wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hov'ring there,
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless halls of air.
Up, up the long, delirious, burning blue
I've topped the wind-swept heights with easy grace
Where never lark, or even eagle flew -
And, while with silent lifting mind I've trod
The high untrespassed sanctity of space,
Put out my hand and touched the face of God.
John Gillespie Magee, Jr.
Posted by: Tris Gallagher at July 29, 2004 10:09 PM (X8gnr)
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Thank you lads, this means a lot to us.
The poem is wonderful. Andy liked Rudyard Kipling, in fact that is who he said he was on his answer machine!
This poem "If" is something that I think he would say to his kids, I have saved it for them.
Love and best wishes to you all and may your own lives be a tribute to Andy.
IF
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs, and blaming it on you
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, but make allowance for their doubting, too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good nor talk to wise;
If you can dream and not make dreams your master,
If you can think, and not make thoughts your aim,
If you can meet with triumph and disaster,
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn out tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings,
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings,
And never breathe a word about your loss...
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the will which says to them "Hold On!"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings-nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And-which is more-you'll be a man, my Son!
RUDYARD KIPLING
Posted by: June Bradsell at August 04, 2004 01:17 PM (U08Ye)
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I WHEN TO SALISBURY HIGH SCHOOL WITH ANDY .........JAKE,SCOTT M,DAMION,JAMES J,MARK H ,SHAUN P.
I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER ANDY AS THE TALL BLOND SPIKEY HAIRED PUNK ROCKER (BLACKBETTY ....WAS HIS SONG)
IN HIGH SCHOOL WE WERE ALL TRYING TO FIND WHO WE WERE AT THAT TIME...........I REMEMBER ANDY HAD THAT DOWN IN SPADES..........AN ALMOST ICONIC CHARACTER........GOOD LOOKING GUY WITH THESE PIERCING EYES WHEN HE WOULD LOOK AT YOU ........AND A WARM SMILE.
I REMEMBER JAMMING WITH HIM ........I PLAYED GUITAR........ HE WOULD PLAY DRUMS
WE WOULD GO ON THESE ADVENTURES IN THE WILDERNESS.........BOTH OF US WITH OUR PELLET GUNS AND THE KNIVES WE COLLECTED...........WE WENT HUNTING BIRDS IN THE BROADMOOR GOLF COURSE IN SHERWOOD PARK..........I WILL NEVER FORGET IT AS LONG AS I LIVE............THAT DAY I KILLED MY FIRST BIRD .........IT IS SOMETHING YOU NEVER FORGET.........I HAVE NEVER KILLED ANYTHING ELSE IN MY LIFE SINCE, AND NEVER WILL ...........YOU ARE A HUNTER OR YOU ARE NOT.........
ANDY, WAS A HUNTER YOU COULD SEE IT IN HIM .........IT WAS VERY STRONG. IN LATER YEARS, I LEARNED OF HIS MANY ACHEIVEMENTS........WHEN WE WERE ALL IN OUR 20'S WITH OUR MEDIOCRE LIVES .....ANDY WAS OFF LIVING/WORKING DOING THINGS I STILL CAN NOT MATCH NOW 10 YEARS LATER.......ANDY WAS AHEAD OF HIS TIME, ALWAYS PUSHING THE BOUNDARIES OF WHAT WAS POSSIBLE..........
I LEARNED OF THE PASSING OF ANDY AND OF MIKE HARVEY FROM A GOOD FRIEND (SHAUN PAYNE).........BOTH OF THEM IN THEIR EARLY THIRTIES............IF WE, THE LIVING CAN LEARN SOMETHING FROM THIS........ I THINK IT WOULD BE:
WE ARE NOT PROMISED 85 YEARS ON THIS PLANET...........YOU DO NOT KNOW WHEN IT WILL BE YOUR TIME ..........SO DO THE THINGS THAT ARE IMPORTANT TO YOU, MAKE A DIFFERENCE,LIVE ON PURPOSE ..........
ANDY, I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU AS THE SPIKEY HAIRED PUNK ROCKER...........A FIRECRACKER OF ENERGY........I MISS YOU BRO
-KIMBLE ZADEREY
Posted by: KIMBLE ZADEREY at September 10, 2004 09:41 PM (c3r7P)
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Hi Kimble, thank you for your posting and sharing your memories from the high school days. You were all a bunch of characters, each one different in their own way. No one, less or more important or unique. Andy was indeed a ring leader but you have to have a ring to lead.
He certainly did make his life count, he was an adventurer by nature. His greatest achievement though was his love of his friends and family and precious memories remain for all of us.
On Sunday we went to scatter Andy's ashes at his favourite hunting spot which he named Ridge Runner. It is near Hanna but to see it you would think that it is Africa, I can understand why he loved it so much. The semi desertlike terrain with cactus and sage, the antelope and deer in abundance and running free like the savannah.
The steep bare hills with deep crevice etched, rolling down to the river swollen and flowing fast. Few trees but those there stand alone, shaped by the wind and weather. One almost expected to see a giraffe or a zebra. Eagles circled high above effortlessly, catching the currents without flapping a wing. It is, in many ways, like Andy himself, natural yet spectacular.
Sometime, you must go and see it for yourself.
I wrote this yesterday to describe the feeling that I, and other members of our family had after we had fulfilled Andy's final wishes.
Ridge Runner
The storm passes and the clouds break
Radiant sun rays filter through, warming the earth
Drying the ground and our tears
A calm descends upon the universe and seeps into our hearts
Like a mother reassuring a child that all is well
A new awakening with eyes, hearts and minds open
An acceptance that we do not understand everything
Faith requiring no explanation
Love with no borders between life and death
A wondrous soul absorbed into those it treasures
with body freed into paradise
Maybe this should be the final entry in this website, we will heal but not forget ANDY BRADSELL
Posted by: June Bradsell at September 14, 2004 10:32 AM (jBc7B)
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I have just recently read about Andy, and it positively made me feel sick. As everyone has said...he was an incredible person. I have never met anyone so charged, as Andy Bradsell. I had the honour of having him train me in Edmonton, and it was the most exhilerating experience of my life, not to mention meeting him and Sam etc. This is such a tragedy, and I am truly sorry for this loss, to his family. I cannot even fathom trying to deal with losing a person so vibrant!
May he be in your thoughts and your hearts forever!
Posted by: Tracy Taylor at September 22, 2004 07:16 PM (y6Yrd)
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Well.. it's been a whole six months now and, though I've soaked up all your words, I could not bring myself to write any.
I can only say thank-you to everyone who posted a message here.
I knew I'd married a magnificent man ... a man who changed people's perspectives. I love him still, I'll love him always, and his children will grow up knowing their father was a hero.
Though he'd never want it this way, he would be proud of how he is honoured by you all.
Do you remember his smile? The one that said "I know?" Keep in your minds that, though the risk of individuality can be high, there is no life richer than one that insists on freedom.
Thanks Deb and June for letting us express our thoughts.
Tasha
Posted by: Tasha at October 02, 2004 02:31 AM (rp6r3)
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Well.. it's been a whole six months now and, though I've soaked up all your words, I could not bring myself to write any.
I can only say thank-you to everyone who posted a message here.
I knew I'd married a magnificent man ... a man who changed people's perspectives. I love him still, I'll love him always, and his children will grow up knowing their father was a hero.
Though he'd never want it this way, he would be proud of how he is honoured by you all.
Do you remember his smile? The one that said "I know?" Keep in your minds that, though the risk of individuality can be high, there is no life richer than one that insists on freedom.
Thanks Deb and June for letting us express our thoughts.
Tasha
Posted by: Tasha at October 02, 2004 02:34 AM (rp6r3)
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ONE CROWDED HOUR..OF GLORIOUS LIFE
IS WORTH AN AGE..WITHOUT AN AIM
Posted by: June Bradsell at November 13, 2004 07:13 AM (ePtIm)
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Tasha, June:
This of you I ask. Please do not remove this web site despite thoughts of its "ending of tributes" to Andy.
My own very fight goes on, and I look to this site for strength and reassurance in myself on an ongoing basis for what Andy meant to me and gave me in our short knowing of one another.
He knew far more about me than I did of him, but he was very open about his life and his feelings.
If only I had heeded his advice....if only he had heeded others advice? He is in another realm now, but still with us.
I continue my own struggle of the hard facts of reality slamming me in the face. Andy, you were right, and far more knowledgable of the "system" I found myself in.
Despite this Andy, you spent all the time we had together reassuring me, pointing things out to me, and during the "waiting times" (of which there were many spent waiting in court), you loved to talk about your wife and children. I loved hearing about them, as it was so refreshing that love and someone who would truly love one another's children outside of biology could actually be found. Something I had been searching for all my adult life, with profoundly negative outcomes.
Every good-bye with Andy, for the time being, was with a big hug and a kiss on the forehead by him. We both hoped there would not be another, under those particular circumstances.
Well, for me there are yet more, without Andy.
Thank you for this site, where I can visit and read and see and remember, this man who came into my life for such a short but meaningful time.
This isn't over for me. I anticipate it isn't over for any of us.
May love, kindness, empathy, and support....those qualities I found in my friend Andy, be with you all.
Tasha: I smile when I hear your words and know that you love him still and will always love him. Andy will go on and on, despite the physical distance between you now, I know you will love him for the rest of your life, as you will love another as well.
With much love and caring,
Michelle
Posted by: Michelle at November 13, 2004 08:06 PM (RhA0p)
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Why?
Why does the sun rise and give light,
Only to set again too soon?
Why do stars twinkle so bright,
Only to pass away with the moon?
Why does a rainbow appear with colors to show,
Only to fade for no apparent reason?
Why does a flower take so long to grow,
Only to wilt during winter season?
Why does snow fall so mysteriously and lay,
Only to change and then melt?
Why do people enter our lives along the way,
Only to leave us when they knew how we felt?
I guess no one will really know why, but God above.
But we should be happy for all those creations
We had some time to know and to love.
Posted by: A Poem at November 15, 2004 09:59 PM (HRLPv)
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I only came upon this terrible news as I searched for a contact address for my friend Tasha, whom I haven't spoken to in years. Tasha my thoughts are with you and the children and Andy's family. I'm sorry I never knew Andy; from what I've read I'm sure he would have enriched my life.
Pierre
Posted by: Pierre Maheux at December 11, 2004 10:16 PM (KoG5u)
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Dear Ms. Larson,
I had written a letter of condolence when I had heard of the tragedy in Iraq and I forwarded it to a Mr. Garth Dunn who I'm sure had forwarded it on to you.
Regardless, today I came across this message board and I felt I should post the letter here to ensure that my thoughts of Andy will be communicated.
Letter:
I have heard with deep regret of the death of your husband, Mr. Andy Bradsell.
I trained under Andy at the International Academy of Security and Close Protection in Edmonton in 1998, and consequently worked with him under the Canadian International Security Corporation for the remainder of that year. I was a young man then, and he became my mentor at a time when I needed one the most. He changed the way I think about life and the way I live my life, two precious gifts that are rare to come by.
What Andy stood for and the knowledge he imparted to me, and to others that have trained and worked with him, lives on in many ways. The knowledge and confidence he gave me has helped me to protect others as well as to help others in need during emergencies.
The actions of his life and untimely death have taught me a new lesson and again he has provided me a mentor to look up to. That lesson is to live life to the fullest, to strive to be your best at whatever you put your mind to, and to always, above all, hold your loved ones close. I am sure he was as great a father and husband as he was a friend and leader, and the world will be forever changed in his absence.
I will be unable to attend the memorial for Andy at Royal Roads University, but I still wish to let you know that he will be in my prayers and memories and will forever be a mentor for me to live up to.
With deepest sympathies,
Kieran Quirke
Posted by: Kieran Quirke at December 28, 2004 05:28 PM (rp6r3)
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I just happened accross a flyer in some old paperwork of mine today, Ran accross andy's name and had some fond memories of a close protection course he taught me 9 years ago. He will be missed, By me and by my students I now teach, as some of his life lessons he taught me I still pass on to this day.
my best wishes to his family.
Lucter-et-emergo
"brighter hence the honour"
Posted by: Sifu C Watt at January 15, 2005 03:27 PM (zuQtX)
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I just wanted to say my thoughts and prayers go out to the Bradsell family and Im deeply sorry for your loss.
Posted by: Harlan at January 22, 2005 12:22 AM (sY9zK)
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